The “Grateful Enough” Myth and Challenge

The most common gratitude myth I see? Believing you are already “grateful enough.” This is the eye-roll moment. The part where some leaders mentally check out and think, “I already do this. There is nothing new, worthwhile, or helpful to learn here.” That is a myth!...

The Invisible Performance Differentiator

Let’s start with something that might sting a little: You are probably misusing or underusing gratitude right now, without even realizing it. Even in the smallest ways, this gap is holding back results. If you want to improve almost any situation, conflict, stress,...

When Gratitude Becomes Dangerous

Lurking underneath, if you look hard enough, it’s always there, gratitude. Gratitude is the invisible connector and life enricher. Last month, I finished reading two memoirs that surprised me when I realized they shared a common theme: breaking generational cycles of...

The Gratitude Gap Closer

There is a gap between what leaders believe and what people are actually experiencing. The gap prevents people from getting the known scientific benefits of gratitude. I’m not listing those benefits here because they can sound too sales-y or even outrageous, and that...

You Won’t Need Gratitude…Until You Do

Here’s an email I got three weeks ago from a friend and colleague I hadn’t heard from in a while. Here are some of his exact words:  “About two years ago, I had a stroke — thankfully, a mild one — but it forced me to slow down and rethink everything. After...

Closing the Gratitude Gap

The Gratitude Gap is the space between knowing gratitude matters and being able to practice it consistently, especially important when you’re under pressure, facing uncertainty, or managing competing demands. Why? So that YOU benefit from the scientifically proven,...

Don’t be a BOB.

Don’t be a BOB: Bitchy, Opinionated, and Bossy. That’s one of the reasons I keep working on strengthening my gratitude, so I’m not a BOB, something I’ve been accused of at times. Much less now, thanks to gratitude. You might not be a BOB at all; maybe you’re a DAN:...